Sunday, December 15, 2013
Take Charge of Your Emotions by Dr. Linda J. Solie
From the publisher:
Respected Christian Psychologist Helps Readers Find Relief from Emotional Pain
Linda J. Solie, a psychologist who has been in private practice for more than 20 years, says everyone can benefit from taking charge of their emotional health. She gives readers the skills to take control of their thoughts and behaviors by first identifying the problem thinking that creates painful feelings and undesirable conduct. Then using a seven-step process, she helps them change their feelings and behavior. Throughout the book the seven steps are applied to a variety of situations, both short term--such as a distressing mood--and longer term, including significant longstanding emotional pain. Grounded in faith, the reader's relationship with Jesus is always central to the process.
As William Backus pioneered a generation ago with Telling Yourself the Truth (more than 700,000 sold), Solie will reach thousands of readers who don't have easy access to mental health providers or can't afford them. Pastors and lay counselors will also find this an excellent resource to use and recommend.
Readers will find this book one that they want to keep on hand to go back and reference. This is not an fluffy-easy-to-read book but instead takes the reader through the steps in a thorough manner. Solie provides charts and appendixes with situations to help the reader be able to overcome the depression, anxiety, and anger they are in.
Christians will resonate with her base of Christian moral and standards but will find this book to be a serious help to their emotional distress. Some readers may find it too much to read straight through. I could recommend reading a section and applying it and waiting a while to apply it before moving onto the next section. In my recommendation I would not say that this is a book to speed read through but to take time in understanding and applying the concepts.
Perhaps my favorite chapter is entitled "Finding Joy". I recently read another book that applied the idea of finding joy. I am so glad that Solie included this in her book as life is not always easy, and even when we have steps and processes to help us overcome depression, anxiety, and anger--one of the best things is to be able to find joy in and despite the circumstances.
I received this book free from Bethany House Publishing in exchange for my honest review.
Posted by Beth-Anne